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MAD AS HELL THAT I CANT EJACULATE FOR MEN ONLY WITH ADVICE NO WOMEN!!!!!.
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$20 Million to Stage SCI Cervical Stem Cell Trial
I am currently in Zurich going through the screening for the stem cell implant. If I am an eligible candidate and do the implantation it will happen mid september. It is slow but the research is continuing...
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Dating ideas
Video games together. Read the same book at the same time and discuss what you like or dont. Tanning on a patio or beach together with an adult beverage (or 2 or 6). Movie nights. Karaoke night. Depen...
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After the injury, how do you stay in a relationship?
I was married for 34 days before my accident. Now I am a t-11 incomplete. I do not believe my wife wants to be with me like this. It feels like sex is a waste of time even though I still want to do th...
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MAD AS HELL THAT I CANT EJACULATE FOR MEN ONLY WITH ADVICE NO WOMEN!!!!!.
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FULL SERVICE GAS STATIONS??
Well then. Good for you. Sounds like you love transferring and fighting with cards and having gas station refills be a pain that takes about 20-25 minutes each time instead of 5. More power to you. I ...
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FULL SERVICE GAS STATIONS??
ummmm, no thanks. I will not ask a random person for help. I do not feel bad if the gas attendant is paid for the time to help me at the pump. At least it is their job. The pity stares of a random per...
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MAD AS HELL THAT I CANT EJACULATE FOR MEN ONLY WITH ADVICE NO WOMEN!!!!!
I have described it as an "empty" feeling. Kissing, touching and even when penetrating just doesn't have that satisfaction or release to it. It is an empty connection. Why be physical wh...
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Are We There Yet?
I agree that a show like push girls does NOT show what life with an SCI really is like for the vast majority of people. I am also someone who despises "reality" TV because it is all very staged by the producers who want to drive ratings for their show. There are many examples where an event happens or questions people ask each other on the show come right after a camera angle "change". It is a positive thing to see these girls getting out and living lives actively but I agree that putting that image in front of the general public can be good and bad. Some people will think it is not really that hard a life and not give it a second thought. I hope more people will watch it and realize they can do more to help or change things for the better for people with SCI's. Maybe someone who never donated a cent will donate now. Maybe someone against stem cells will realize we may cure paralysis with it and educate themselves just a little because of the show. At the very least, the show is making people think about people living in wheel chairs which I believe has to be a good thing in the long run.
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FULL SERVICE GAS STATIONS??
This has been a big concern as I am about to get back to driving soon. In NY there are full service stations in the area but not everywhere. In Canada, Toronto area, there are none anywhere. So when I...
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What is the biggest myth about people living with paralysis?
The big ones I have gotten so far are:
1. Other people believe that if you "just work really, really hard in the gym" I will be able to walk again.
2. That I need help opening every do...
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