I really like that you guys have found kindred spirits in one another, I would like to see you get together and have a few laughs. It would be very therapeutic. Also, if I could rewrite the 10 Commandments,, one of them would be "thou shalt not take thyself too seriously". And laughter would be the best way to honor that commandment.
On the other hand, like it or not, when we are in public we are teachers. And we teach not with our words but with our actions and our attitudes.. People who deal with us in public will be learning something about disability,, wheelchairs,, who we are and who we are not.
What do we need them to learn and how can we teach that?