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Mother Paralyzed

By David

My name is David Murphy, and i just joined Team Reeve to run the NYC Marathon on behalf of my mom, who became paralyzed from just below the arms down after a back surgery in Januay. She is young, 64, and this came as a total shock to us, as I am sure happens to most. After reading some of the messages on this board, i just want to say that you are an incredible inspiration to me and my family. It has been so hard watching my mom go through this and make adjustments, and just witnessing her emotional pain. Seeing so many people not only endure but thrive under such difficult conditions is very touching to me. Thank you for your much needed inspiration.

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Terry217 says:

Your love and hope for your mom just shines through your message. Good luck to her and your family. Thank you for running at the marathon.

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prc_donnal says:

Hi David!

I am glad you have found hope and inspiration here. It does help to know that you are not alone during difficult times and that by sharing our stories we can persevere and succeed.

I have information and resources on spinal cord injury for individuals who are newly injured, including information on home modifications, state resources and support groups. I would be happy to send that to you if you would like to receive it.

My email address is dlowich@christopherreeve.org. My phone number is (800) 539-7309 x7202.

My best to you, your mom and your family.

Sincerely,
Donna

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JLo says:

Hi David,

You've come to the right place. I commend you greatly for being a part of Team Reeve NYC, too. It is equally inspiring to see the feat that our Team Reeve athletes conquer during all these marathons.

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6wheel'dMomma says:

Hi David and welcome! Congrats on joining Team Reeve for your mom..I'm so sorry to hear of her injury. Yes it is a huge shock and lifestyle change anytime someone has that happen, or any other type of paralysis. I was 46 when I was injured so we've had a lost of adjustments to make. Things will get easier as time goes by. Knowing you all be there for your mom will help in her recovery. Being the listen to her- good days and bad...she will have bad days, just like before- these will just be "different". No child wants to see their parents struggle or vice versa...hang in there...where do you all live? We can check if there is a local chapter or support group nearby- it helps sometimes to have someone to talk to face to face- peer mentors are a great avenue...we've all been there and are doing it day to day...if your mom is interested, please let me know and we'll see if we can find her someone, unless someone else has done so already...The folks here at Reeves are VERY helpful!
Take one day at a time....

Karen
Peer Mentor Coordinator
AzSCIA

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