Hi: I am sorry to hear about your friends injury but the Paralysis Resource Center offers a multitude of information and resources to help you sort through the maze of a new spinal cord injury.
I would suggest that your friends family starts with the Top 10 Questions for the Newly Injured found at the following link:
http://www.christopherreeve.org/site/c.mtKZKgMWKwG/b.4514599/k.901E/Newly_Paralyzed.htm
Next I would suggest that his family call an Information Specialist at 800-539-7309 to receive information and suggestions on selecting a rehabilitation center. Information Specialists are available from 9-5 Monday thru Friday. Besides having a person to guide you through the process, you will receive a wealth of printed materials to help you better understand a spinal cord injury. To locate more information, please go to the home page of the Reeve Foundation Paralysis Resource Center at
http://www.paralysis.org
I hope you and your friends family will reach out to the Information Specialist Team.