OK guys I am a T-6 complete paraplegic and have had no problem getting beautiful, intelligent, sane, kind, loving, caring, women. You need to focus on being friends so they can see your life first hand. As long as you treat them with the love and respect all women deserve... they are willing to look past the chair. Make sure you learn all you can about womens bodies so when the gear eventually comes off you can pleasure her in every way...doesn't require an erect penis....hands, voice, lips do the job... throw a few toys in the mix and she will never want to leave you!!!
Remember sex is 80+ % in your mind!!! As far as the women that are not strong enough to deal with it .....move on....there are over 200 million women i the USA....keep looking and keep your faith.