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    <title>Healing the Mind and Heart-Sexual Urges but no physical reaction</title>
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    <description><![CDATA[Is it normal to feel the urge to have sex but no ability to get a errection? I know I could try medicine to correct the problem, but, what if it does not work? It would be totally embarassing. Would it be wrong to try mastribation with the meds before having sex? I just don&#39;t want my partner to pity me. ]]></description>
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      <description><![CDATA[I am so sorry but I&#39;m not sure I understand your request. If you cannot join us live on Wednesday the seventh, please send me the issues you would like to have discussed that afternoon and I promise we will get to at least some of them.<br />
really really want to accommodate you so please give us some guidance about how we can best do that]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 31 Oct 2012 20:24:14 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>Dan Gottlieb</dc:creator>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>
	<span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 128);"><i><img border="0" class="tp_smiley" height="20" src="http://www.spinalcordinjury-paralysis.org/images/smileys/crying.gif" width="20" />no Dan, dis wont do! i too wanna b audible n exchange my own experience/ views on d issue, as u all do their at States at d webcast. i m from kolkata, India.....so what....why cant&nbsp;u not allow me to b 1 with u.....tell me??? hope u address d issue, at d earliest....dat i do not miss d 7th nov&#39;12 episode. luvvvvyaaaaa <img border="0" class="tp_smiley" height="20" src="http://www.spinalcordinjury-paralysis.org/images/smileys/smile.gif" width="20" /></i></span></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 29 Oct 2012 02:26:41 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>sarmistha</dc:creator>
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      <description><![CDATA[hi Alicia,<br />
<br />
You can now hear the webcast in this discussion group under the topic &quot;webcasts&quot;. Not only can you hear last months, but you will also be able to see what&#39;s coming up next month.<br />
Hope you can join us then!]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 17 Oct 2012 20:22:09 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>Dan Gottlieb</dc:creator>
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      <description><![CDATA[I missed the webcast, unfortunately - any way to view/listen to it after the fact?<br />
Thanks.]]></description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 12 Oct 2012 00:23:21 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>Alicia</dc:creator>
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      <description><![CDATA[Yes!<br />
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<a href="http://www.ChristopherReeve.org/webcasts">http://www.ChristopherReeve.org/webcasts</a><br />
<br />
Dan&#39;s plus we&#39;ll be adding other topics as we go.<br />
<br />
Rob]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2012 18:24:43 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>Gerthro</dc:creator>
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      <description><![CDATA[Well, because of all of your honest and open communication about your sexuality and intimacy issues, we launched our first ever audio chat last Wednesday. It will be for others to determine whether it was successful, but it was well attended and I felt we had a good discussion. There were a couple of technical issues that I have to get more comfortable with, but even at my age I think that might be possible!<br />
<br />
Our next one will be on Wednesday, November 7 at 4 PM. And you are the first to know that I am thinking of continuing the discussion around intimacy with a focus on all intimate relationships &ndash; our relationships with our partner, our parents, our children.<br />
And the following month, I think we will have a chat about our relationship with ourselves &ndash; the most intimate and the most complicated of all relationships.<br />
<br />
So we will continue our discussion here and I really hope you can join me on November 7]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 10 Oct 2012 20:31:07 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>Dan Gottlieb</dc:creator>
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      <description><![CDATA[Hi Rob..........if we missed the live chat webcast.........is there a way to hear it ?&nbsp;<br />
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&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; Thanks.......Norma Carroll]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 10 Oct 2012 16:43:16 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>nanaboombala</dc:creator>
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      <description><![CDATA[We are going to archive each webcast. I&#39;ll let you know where after the first one this Wednesday (Oct3, 2012).<br />
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Rob]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 01 Oct 2012 15:40:53 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>Gerthro</dc:creator>
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      <description><![CDATA[Hi Stefanie,<br />
<br />
even though you can&#39;t join us, I would love to have your voice heard. Please tell me what you would like to say to this group about your life and your experience, not just with sex, but with intimacy. Like to know how your understanding of intimacy and sexuality has changed over these last 30 years. And would also like to know some of the mechanics &ndash; how you enjoy sex.<br />
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And I would also like to know what you would like to hear if you were joining us that day. As a matter fact, your opening comment could start the discussion off! And I am hoping that Rob Gerth will be able to find a way to have you here this.<br />
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We will be doing this once a month if it is successful. And we might do this next month or something else &ndash; we will decide together.<br />
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Good luck with your surgery Steffy]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 26 Sep 2012 19:11:09 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>Dan Gottlieb</dc:creator>
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      <description><![CDATA[&nbsp; i&#39;m L3-L5 SCI para... &nbsp;injured@age 15 ...now48 ...... no genital sensation...enjoy &nbsp;sex very much...have been fortunate enuf to have had many &nbsp;kind loving partners<br />
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&nbsp;but &nbsp;DARN IT!!<br />
unfortunately ill be having my weightbearing right shoulder reconstructed that day... (OCT 3rD) hope u&#39;ll do it again soon &nbsp;<br />
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&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;steffy]]></description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 21 Sep 2012 09:43:58 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>stefanie</dc:creator>
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      <description><![CDATA[fine, dan! welcum d idea.....luv it, shl enjoy particptng d webinar.....only trouble is d time-diffrnc.]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2012 04:48:33 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>sarmistha</dc:creator>
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      <description><![CDATA[hello everyone,<br />
<br />
our live chat is now a reality and will happen on October 3 at 4 PM. Rob Gerth will notify everyone via newsletter about how to log on etc.<br />
And the topic will be Navigating Intimate Relationships, and will cover the wide range of issues from sexuality to love, fear and insecurity.<br />
Look forward to talking with you on 3 October at 4 PM Eastern time]]></description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2012 19:40:30 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>Dan Gottlieb</dc:creator>
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      <description><![CDATA[I have basically tuned out sex cause I can't get aroused but I do try to make any female I am with gets what she wants even though I can't what else can I do I'm two years t-10 complete and I'm losing my mind I need help ]]></description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 15 Sep 2012 23:28:18 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>REAPER</dc:creator>
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      <description><![CDATA[dear linda, want to talk to u....me sarmistha, from kolkata, india. a female, divorced, physiologist. can we talk? my contact no.is +91-9674554409. any day afet indian standard time 8.00pm. shl luv to chat n exchnge exprncs ovr ph, dear. luv u]]></description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 15 Sep 2012 02:27:21 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>sarmistha</dc:creator>
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      <description><![CDATA[susan, i m sarmistha, a spinal cord injured from kolkata/ india. a female, divorced, physiologist. can we talk? my contact no.is +91-9674554409. any day afet indian standard time 8.00pm. shl luv to chat n exchnge exprncs ovr ph, dear. luv u.]]></description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2012 07:48:45 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>sarmistha</dc:creator>
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